Actually, it's kinda sad when my sis is irritated that when I get home, I complain or get upset about work. I tend to want to offload my day's irritation (if there are irritations) when I get home, and generally, I will speak to my mom. But of course, sometimes, I also complain to my siblings.
But I didn't know I was irritating them. I don't know, maybe I am being selfish. Maybe it's my character, being an extrovert, to speak about my problems, as it helps me internalise and resolve the problem a lot more easily then if I were to just think about it and try to rationalise it internally.
And the term that my sis used was that, I was spreading my negativity. I don't know, as my sis, I would imagine that i would be able to confide in her and share problems. I know some of them are daily grouses, but still, as family, isn't that part and parcel of being family? Feeling kinda hurt now, to think that she was irritated with me all these while.
Was contemplating if I should apply for this MNC, but which already holds the prospects of being a super busy job, possibly more busy than the current one. And my sis says that it's a good idea... cuz then I would be too busy and tired to complain to her then.
What kind of a sister is that? I can't believe she said that. So this is family. I am feeling very disheartened now.
30 September 2007
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my sis complains away all the time to everyone at home...and she knows very well that i have no patience to hear her grouses. its just an avenue for her to let out 'steam'. Irritable part is because she always complain about minor minor issues....and we keep telling her, you get high pay so naturally more is expected of you mah but she just doesnt agree. On my part, very difficult to sympthatise when she complains and complains but i'm the one actually suffering at work..lousy pay and mountains of work to clear. Maybe your sis is having some work related stress of her own so she isnt patient enough to endure your grouses which may seem petty to her....well...let it pass bah....sisters wont hold ill feelings towards each other.
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